To Homeschool or Not To Homeschool, That is the Question

By Michelle Tucker
©2010 Michelle Tucker

      Although I taught public school for fifteen years, there came a time, when I needed to homeschool my two children, a boy and a girl.   My husband and I saw that it was the right time, since we were moving to a new state.  I wouldn't trade those three years homeschooling!  The relationship that I now have with my children has deepened through homeschooling.  My children ask my advice, are not embarrassed to show emotion, hugs and kisses to us, their parents; and we've built up a deep level of trust.  My children know that we will sacrifice to do what's best for the family and them.  Boy, was it ever a sacrifice!  Since I have a master's degree and three teaching credentials, as well as an interpreter certification, giving up a $75,000 yearly salary with excellent benefits (in 1997) was both difficult and heroic. 
     To homeschool and stay true to your goals and belief system will take a heroic effort, I'll be honest.  Remember that there is a time and place for everything.  Also, not everyone is at a point financially, where they can  homeschool.  That may change in the future for you.  But, you and your spouse need to come to a place of agreement about homeschooling.  You will definitely need support.
     In addition to your spouse, you will find support from others.  Most areas have homeschool organizations and support groups.  The Internet will be your best friend in finding support.  You can find local homeschool groups on-line.  As far as curriculum, there is a plethora of curriculum and materials for homeschooling.  I'm going to tell you some of my favorite sources.  If others can add your comments about your favorite sources, that would be so appreciated!  One thing may work for one family and something different for another family.  Homeschoolers, please add your favorite curriculum, websites and tips in comments.  Thank you.
     So, here are my favorites, (these are a good place to start):

• Curriculum Associates, publishers of workbooks- great spelling, Write!, Explode the Code (phonics) and more.
• Audio Memory,  publishers of educational songs- math, geography, grammar songs and more.
• Homeschool Legal Defense Association (HSLDA)- This organization fights for parents' rights to homeschool, provides information about laws pertaining to homeschooling and defends its members.
• About.com Homeschooling Forum: Homeschoolers Trading Forum- you can find sellers of used homeschool curriculum
• (There is so much more)

     I placed some examples of the workbooks and materials that I found successful below: Spelling Power: Level C Focus on Spelling Meaning and Writing